Every year, the St. Mary’s calendar is filled to the brim with traditions and ceremonies. Springfest, Black Friday, White Thursday, Victory Ranch, graduation, flower girls, Christmas Pageants, Class Day, Derby Day and Light-a-Candle, to name a few. 

I have never been one for ceremonies, and when I first came to St. Mary’s freshman year I was totally freaked out. Why are all of these people wearing wedding dresses for graduation? Why was chocolate syrup massaged into my scalp on Derby Day? Why are the seniors so dramatic on Black Friday? 

Over time, I have come to appreciate these days. Knowing that girls for decades before me have been in the same situation is a really grounding experience. 

I understand that Mr. Valentine does not hold the same amount of importance as, say, the Christmas Pageant, but, at least for me, it is still one of those important traditions that St. Mary’s keeps. 

Don’t get me wrong, I am not the kind of person that keeps traditions solely for the sake of keeping them, and I can usually understand when it is time to let things go, but I do not believe that Mr. Valentine should leave our calendar just yet. 

The tradition is definitely odd–that is not debatable–but it’s also just a solid, good time. The guys that choose to compete are glad for the experience, and the St. Mary’s folks are glad to be an audience for such a hilarious event. The real-time gameshow is a fantastic de-stresser from the insanely busy third quarter, and I am a big fan of some healthy competition. 

“But what if the roles were reversed?”, you ask.

 Well, if the roles were reversed, then it would still be odd. However, the girls that, again, chose to compete would be glad for the experience, and the other school would be glad to be an audience.

Of course, it is only an acceptable tradition as long as the competitors are there of their own free will, they feel comfortable participating and so on. But we have no reason to believe that’s not the case, and lots of reasons to think this is good, clean fun.

And if someone wants Mr. Valentine to become more equitable for all people, not only males, then I welcome the opportunity for leadership to elect me. I would gladly dominate the stage and become the new Ms. Valentine.